In a recent movie of Filipina actress and actor-Liza Soberano and Enrique Gil respectively titled “My Exs and Whys”
One question caught my attention
When Cali (Soberano) asked Gio (Gil) ,
Am I not enough?
This question does not only applies to the situation where you got cheated or betrayed by someone you love/care
But also in many aspects of our life
Am I not enough question in the relationship is a result of partial “I know I had some lacking but do you have to do it?” and “I did everything and give everything but why did you do it? “
It is between accepting and knowing you have faults and not only that person and firmly affirming and questioning that person despite everything you’ve done, it is still not enough.
Am I not enough? is a question that should be answer by yourself. Yes, yourself, because you of all people know yourself more.
Don’t depend on the answer of others.
Everyone has their own opinions or views on how they see you but never ever let that define you, dictate you and change you into someone you’re not and not the real you.
So, if ever that question pops to you. You know yourself.
You are enough.
You are worth more than a diamond or gold because YOU ARE YOU.